If the shoe fits 😂

An yes I understand all families might have this going on,but please help me understand..
They say family is everything,family sticks together,family always..
But what if family is the Main Problem?
What If family is what is bringing you down!?
Misery does love it's company!
I honestly feel once your truly happy in life and where you are at in your life you won't have time for anything else or anyone else's drama!
I refuse to let anyone bring me down,or whatever else they come up with !
See if you don't like something in your life CHANGE IT,If you don't like someone in your life Remove them from it.only you have Control of your life,and what you allow will continue.

Never ever could I wrap my brain arouns this...
How siblings could be so evil towards each other like as if you are enemys,yes I don't speak to my brother for my own reasons,see it's simple Remove what you don't like out your life.
I taught my self that,Never ever will I allow Gracie To become a UGLY soul !
And never will I teach her that what I will teach her is what is right and what is wrong.
See My Moms,sister and Brother lack Compassion,respect,loyalty they never had that so they can't teach it or show it. but what is that teaching the last generation?
To be enemies with your own family,talk down on each other !!
Honestly who wants that in a Family?
Who wants to be around a person like that?
Not me!
Do you?


I brought a Child into this world at 16 and never once have I allowed this crap around her, we don't need no one like this in our life I simply don't feel the need to talk to anyone in my family due to ugly behavior,act like a adult not a outta control teen.

It's NOT always about family because family can be pure Jealous and hatful an misery loves its company,I've come to the point in my life to accept the fact that some family members will always dislike you,they will always Be jealous or hateful! Everyone wants you to do good but never better than them,an once you succeed above and beyond that's when the hate Kicks in!

Raise your self to be someone,raise your self with Respect!

If that's one thing my mom sure did install in me is some  loyalty,compassion,an Respect!
Let's get something cleared also because this is My Family's favorite thing to throw out 
"that My Mothers addiction has ruined My Life"
I sure do live a Awesome life,no it ain't Perfect but my bills are paid,we have food and clean clothes an have steady jobs and cars. My Mom has Made me a strong Person! I've been to hell and back and look who I've become a Awesome Mother!
Striving for My Career!
Thanks mom,Your perfect.